Everything Is Copy: Nora Ephron Inspires Taylor Swift and Me.

By Maria Miller

Though I didn’t become a published writer until my late 30’s, those voices inside my head, voices we writers tend to hear, have kept me company since childhood. Because I can’t climb inside other writers’ minds, I have no way of knowing how much of what they put on the page is rooted in their own experiences, I just know that almost everything I’ve ever written, fiction and nonfiction, is rooted in mine.

I believe I’m in good company. A longtime devotee of Nora Ephron and more recently, Taylor Swift, on the Dedication page of my novel debuting in Fall, 2024, SweetSpot: Now and Then, I wrote these words:

. … Ms. Ephron’s body of work includes a novel she wrote, HEARTBURN, that by her own admission was as much memoir as work of fiction. Taylor Swift, a lyrical poet, writes songs rooted in her life experiences, too. Both writers have given this writer courage to publish a novel with roots in my own reality and crafted into fiction… .’

I’m not the only writer of a certain age inspired by Taylor Swift. Part of her magic? Capturing the hearts of fans of all ages. Why? Lyrics she writes, while specific to her, have a universal appeal. The same can be said about fans of Nora Ephron’s works, whether in novel, essay, memoir or film form. On the day of Taylor Swift’s ‘Tortured Poets Department’ debut, April 2024, I happened upon a video snippet of Taylor honoring Nora. Until I listened, I did not know that Taylor Swift views Nora Ephron as a mentor, too.

My Mentors and Me

Like Taylor Swift and Nora Ephron, I have always drawn from my life experiences. I don’t know how to tell a story any other way. If the roots of storytelling are not grounded in one’s life, where does inspiration come from? Taylor Swift’s short video, her love letter to Nora Ephron, is a reminder of storytelling’s deep roots. I have wondered if perhaps those who studied the craft at the MFA level learned how to excavate inspiration elsewhere, perhaps by having more tools their toolboxes? But that was not my experience. Like Darlene Robinson, my protagonist in SweetSpot: Now and Then, I began my freelance writing career during my kids’ wonder years and after a successful career as a psych nurse practitioner. I write what I know or yearn to know more about. That’s the process I share with writers in my workshops, those who didn’t matriculate through the ranks of academia as well as those who have.

Me and My Tribe

I hang with writers and have for decades. They are my tribe though I can’t say we have spent much time discussing story origins and/or inspirations, et al. Maybe we have but it wasn’t until Taylor Swift came under severe scrutiny for writing what she knows that I really wished Nora Ephron was still with us. Throughout her career, Ms. Ephron faced significant backlash in the press for Heartburn, her novel rooted in a transforming time of her life, a time when she discovered (in her third trimester of pregnancy) that her hubby had a girlfriend, and a serious one at that. Now writers, I ask you, had that happened and you had Nora Ephron’s writing chops, what would you do? Perhaps you would take to the page, too.

The Evolution of Story

About those voices mentioned at the top of this piece, when Sweetspot was in its infancy, NOW and THEN was not part of my protagonist’s narrative arc. But that was then and by the time this novel was ready for reading, this writer and her protagonist had logged many more miles and along the way, learned a thing or two. The addition of NOW was born at my protagonist’s insistence. Really. Darlene Robinson’s dang voice would not quiet down and since this story includes in its telling the birth of a published author, her career jumpstarted in 1999 by attending her first writers conference, I decided to listen to Darlene and added a present-day NOW told in first person. While the NOW section, sprinkled sparsely throughout, delivers a perspective of an older and wiser woman who achieved a modicum of literary success in her hot flashing years, the NOW addition is also meant to inspire and who among us couldn’t uses a jolt of inspiration from time to time?

Getting Ready for Publication

I’m doing what writers preparing to publish must do, expand my platform that includes finding writing sites that welcome freelancers. Wild Ink Publishing published one of my pieces a few months ago. My thanks to Abigail Wild for publishing this one, too.

Write On,

Marla Miller